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May 14, 2025
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What happens when life throws something at you that you didn’t see coming?
In this personal solo episode, Damon opens up about a life-altering diagnosis that challenged his vision—both physically and metaphorically.
Whether you're navigating personal challenges or professional setbacks, this episode offers a roadmap to move forward with resilience, community, and purpose.
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Damon introduces a personal story about unexpected adversity
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eight years ago I was out playing tennis
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and I started wondering myself "How come
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the ball keeps getting on me and I can't
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really see it?" I go see a retina
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specialist i go through all these tests
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and she said "Over time you may be
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losing your central
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vision." I walked out of the doctor's
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office and of course I was stunned and
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shocked i didn't really know what to do
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and I went through several tests it
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actually took close to 6 months before
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they were able to diagnose me with
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something called PRPH2 it affects people
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in different ways but for the most part
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it over time is a progressive eye
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disease that will take away most if not
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all of your central vision here I am at
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45 years old and I get this news that my
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life is going to be altered in a way
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that I'm going to have to learn to work
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within certain constraints and do things
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differently than maybe I never had to do
Early signs something was off—on the tennis and basketballcourt
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before i didn't know where this was
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going to lead me but I knew one thing
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that no matter what happened I was not
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going to let it impact my life to the
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point where I couldn't live my life
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fully and have a great life welcome to
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the Learn All Podcast the show for
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today's leaders who want to get ahead
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and stay ahead because we believe great
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leaders aren't born or made they are
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always in the making i'm your host Damon
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Ley two-time bestselling author and CEO
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of Learn It a live learning platform
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that has helped upskill over 2 million
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people over the past three decades i'm
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going to share with you a playbook that
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I've developed over these past eight
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years to help me deal with this
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situation and other areas of adversity
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step one is acceptance which quite
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frankly is probably the most difficult
A trip to the optometrist turns serious
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i'm not going to wake up one day and all
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of a sudden my eyes are going to be
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better and by the way what I have
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there's no cure for it people ask me all
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the time can you get a bionic eye can
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you have surgery are there any cures in
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the near future no there there's not any
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cures in the near future but it is what
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it is so I have to accept it and move
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forward step two is I refuse to be a
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victim it's very easy to wake up in the
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morning and say to yourself why me why
Diagnosis: PRPH2, a rare degenerative eye disease
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is this happening to me how come I'm so
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unlucky but I look at it the exact
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opposite i wake up and say why not me
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what would make me any more special or
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different than anybody else instead I'm
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going to be very grateful for what I do
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have there are so many people out there
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who have cancer or much greater
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challenges than me i'm gonna learn how
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to live within the constraints I have
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with my eyesight and figure out how to
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work around the challenges that I have i
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mean there's no other way around it step
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three you have to have faith whether you
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choose religion whether you choose your
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family you got to find something to
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believe in for me I look at it like I
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only have one life so I'm going to find
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the best way to get through this same
Processing the fear, uncertainty, and future ahead
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goes if you've lost your job and you're
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in a tough situation you got to have
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faith in your skills and your ability
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because you've been successful before
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you're going to be successful again step
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four I look at it as community when
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you're going through adversity and tough
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times you don't need to go through it
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alone reach out to others tap into your
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network and find people who you can
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share your challenges with your
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struggles i'm not somebody who joins
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different peer groups all the time but I
The 5-step playbook for facing adversity
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did a lot of research because I was
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curious i joined a community called
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Foundation for Fighting Blindness and
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there's now a grassroot group of PRPH2
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people who are going through the same
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challenges and struggles as I am and we
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meet quarterly but I build up this
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friendship and it's nice to have people
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that you can share some of your
Step 1: Acceptance—“There is no cure, but I can moveforward”
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challenges with if you're going through
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a hard time at work find mentors find
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somebody that you can speak to and if
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you don't have anybody go on LinkedIn
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and you can connect with people there
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and and probably spark up a conversation
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community is so important whatever
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challenges or hard times you're going
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through keep in mind you don't have to
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go through it alone the final step in
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all of this is leading by example
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turning what can be looked at as a huge
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negative into a positive there's a
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couple ways to do that one is when you
Step 2: Refuse the victim mentality—"Why not me?"
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have constraints how do you use these to
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to your advantage now that I have a
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challenge seeing things it requires me
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to slow down and really focus and be
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more present that is a huge one for me
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also I am adamant in helping others with
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this i've shared my story with others to
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help people and most importantly I have
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two young children and as time goes on
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and maybe my eyesight continues to get
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worse I want to see that their father
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has a courage to continue to move
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forward won't be a victim and can lead a
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great life because nobody gets through
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this life unscathed so my goal is to
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really turn lemons into lemonade and
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make the best out of all this as I begin
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to close out here what I want you to
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take away from this is we're all going
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to go through some form of adversity in
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our lives whether it's ourselves
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directly or the people we love and we
Step 3: Faith—in family, skills, and what you can control
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have to find a way to do our best with
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it and I hope that the steps that I went
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through with you which is step one is
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learn to accept it and make the best out
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of it step two is fight to overcome the
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victim mentality which is very easy to
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fall in step three is have the faith
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that you're going to figure this out one
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way or the other step four is you don't
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have to go at this alone there's a
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community out there and people you can
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turn to that can help you and you can
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help them in return and the final step
Step 4: Community—why you don’t have to go through it alone
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take this negative awful situation
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you're in and find a way to turn it into
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a positive lead by example help others
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give back wherever you can and show
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people that this isn't who you are or
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this isn't going to define you that
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you're going to work through this and
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you're going to make the best out of it
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if you know somebody who's struggling
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connect with me on LinkedIn at Damon
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Lembby or reach out whether you're going
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through a very tough challenge whether
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you got divorced or whatever it is you
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got going on in your life get up every
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day we've made it through all of our
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toughest challenges and so I wish all of
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you the best of luck until next time
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everybody stay curious keep learning
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have a great