Release Date: Oct 13
Empathy isn’t just a buzzword. It’s the secret ingredient that transforms high-pressure teams from stressed-out survivors into thriving collaborators.
In this candid episode of The Learnit Lounge, host Dr. Mickey Fitch-Collins sits down with facilitator and systems thinker Chantelle Kohn to tackle one of leadership’s thorniest challenges: how to teach and practice empathy when the stakes are high and time is short. Chantelle offers a neuroscience-backed look at why empathy can be so elusive under pressure, and how leaders can actually strengthen their empathy muscles, even in deadline-driven environments. You’ll walk away with practical strategies for rewiring team culture, normalizing vulnerability, and embedding empathy into performance, not just conversation.
If you want to create cultures where high performance and human connection go hand in hand, this is an episode you can’t miss.
What You’ll Learn:
- Why empathy gets harder (not easier) in high-pressure environments, and what’s happening in your brain
- How to move from protection mode to connection mode using curiosity, listening, and vulnerability as levers for growth
- Strategies for overcoming assumptions, and why perspective-taking is key to true understanding
- Actionable tips for infusing empathy into high-performing teams (without sacrificing results or standards)
- What leaders can do to move empathy from “soft skill” to a core element of performance reviews and metrics
- Why creating a culture of empathy is every organization’s responsibility, regardless of industry, geography, or hierarchy
In This Episode:
- 00:00 – Welcome to The Learnit Lounge and episode introduction
- 01:25 – Chantelle’s background: from global L&D to The Change Collab
- 03:09 – Why empathy is so difficult under pressure—and the science behind it
- 05:10 – What happens to empathy during deadline crunches
- 07:07 – “Empathy is a capability”. @hy it takes practice, not just good intentions
- 08:32 – Curiosity, listening, and perspective-taking: empathy in action
- 12:10 – Breaking the cycle of assumptions in team communication
- 13:10 – Can high performance and empathy actually coexist?
- 14:08 – Actionable tips: coaching vs. micromanagement, modeling and rewarding empathy
- 18:45 – Empathy as the “core ingredient” for team success
- 20:01 – Are some industries worse at empathy? (And why it’s actually universal)
- 22:43 – Traditional leadership myths and the risks of outdated workplace norms
- 25:28 – Generational shifts: Why younger workers expect (and demand) “humans first” leadership
- 29:44 – Chantelle’s biggest leadership lesson: learning, unlearning, and showing up authentically
- 31:32 – The uncomfortable truth about leadership development—training alone isn’t enough
- 34:32 – How to connect with Chantelle
About Chantelle Kohn:
Chantelle Kohn is the founder of The Change Collab, a sought-after facilitator, and an expert in building high-performing, psychologically safe teams. With over 15 years of global experience across nonprofit, corporate, and public sectors, Chantelle has designed and delivered culture-building programs everywhere from Sydney to New York. She holds a master’s in international and community development and advanced training in emotional intelligence, systems coaching, and deep diversity leadership. Known for her warm-but-direct style, Chantelle helps leaders “lead well, relate well, and live well” by making empathy practical and actionable.
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